Stabilized Associations

Before there can be any type of friendship, associations must mature from an immature state. If we get ahead of the development stage then we will be awaken to deficiencies within the connection. The handicap in the association will hinder the relationship from ever maturing. And we are reluctant to see it in the beginning phases because we want what we want and were focused on getting just that. In exchange we become caretakers of the handicap. Common grounds must stabilize the foundation of the relationship. If two people have a difference of opinions and agree on nothing then the grounds in which they stand on will be unsettling. Earthquakes happen when two plates push or slip against each other which are called the “fault” and they break because of the built up pressure. And the breaking point is called the “focus”. When there is fault in the relationship the primary focus gets lost in between the connection and the miscommunication. How we stabilize the association is by determining in the beginning the type of relationship that could mature from the association. Second never deviate off the initial course and third never allow conflict to go on unresolved. You’ll be better off not worrying about what you don’t understand more so than trying to understand what you’re worrying about.  

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