Deceived

We've all done things that we said we will never do again. And in certain predicaments when the story was retold you couldn't believe what was being said. I've made the mistake to go as far as saying; it wasn't me it was someone else.  What leads to deception is when you allow your desire to override the approval of your own mind. They say if you go off of your first mind it won't lead you astray, but the second and third mind is usually jumbled by a matter of other opinions.  The deceiving process begins by allowing an opposing side to lure one into continuing to do his/her own will to justify "all” matters in lieu of doing what’s willfully right. When your will is intact you think everyone and everything else is wrong and you’re the only person who's right. You've now made yourself to believe that if you had to do everything by yourself you could because no one besides you is able to. This is where the enemy gains a hold of our lives, when we’re in a place where no one can defend us and we are all alone. His number one ploy is isolation. Isolation leaves you needy and starving for attention which makes you more willing to latch on to anyone. He knows that two is better than one and when working together we strengthen each other, but divided we all fall. How do you recognize the signs of deceit? You can only recognize the signs when you unfold the plan. Usually the signs are the ones that have hidden agendas. People will never flat out tell you that what they have in mind for you is to bring harm to you. What they will try to do, is wear you down until all of your senses are thrown off by fake ploys to desensitize you. By taking away the things that makes sense and the people who do. So often we think that we are being deceived by the very people that tell us the truth about ourselves even when we don’t want to see their way. Good friends don’t withhold secrets in order to spare the others feelings. Would you rather hurt now so you can get over quickly or linger in the pain awhile awaiting the hurtful truth?  When good people leave it’s an indicator that something within you and your decisions may have turned them off and away. When you start to blame them and never look at yourself, it could be your surrounding that could be affecting your environment. Uninvited guest tend to lurk around to hold your first mind hostage by eluding you away from your focus. We have to be smart to the game that's being played on us. People just don't leave without reason. Its one thing to not have a clue but it’s another to act like you know when you don’t. Our deceiver uses bold defenses to counteract the workings of good when we’re oblivious to evil. He has a way to single handily destroy the existence of who you are by allowing him too. If you give him reason then you’ll see the effect. How you get rid of the deceiver is by using what he doesn't have against him, the “will” that is not of your own, but the one that triumphs in Victory.

Duly Noted and Marked